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Should I believe that he's interested or is this all a game? *Will choose best answer and answer yours!*? - hkharper - 01-20-2013 04:16 PM
Last Tuesday night I met a guy at the bar and we talked (I don't remember what we talked about) and I remember kissing him a few times and him asking for my number. The next day he added me on facebook and texted me and we talked for a few hours. Didn't talk Thursday. I chatted him on facebook on Friday for a little while. Didn't talk Saturday, but I saw his roommates at the bar that night and the one that I met on Tuesday came over and hugged me and talked to me and he called his other two roommates over, which I had never met before, and they all started yelling my name and i asked how they knew my name and they said you're Cam's girl! So Cam has obviously talked about me to them...Cam follows me on twitter Sunday, and I texted him saying I met all his roommates last night and he didn't respond. We didn't talk Monday. On Tuesday morning around 1am Cam chatted me on fb and asked if he could come over and eat a sandwich or something because he was starving and had no money. Cam and I have never even hung out. I didn't let him come over. Later that morning I chatted him and asked if he was still hungry just kinda jokin around cause i thought it was so bizarre. He said yes and I felt kinda bad and said I would make him something and he said that would be great and he said for me to text him when i got out of class. he then asked if i had a roommate that would like to meet his friend ethan, which is one of his roommates. I said no, and he asked if i would mind if ethan tagged along. I was like no, I think you can eat by yourself. Then he said that Ethan went on every first date with him and if he didn't approve then it was a no go...and he told me to ask him myself if I didn't believe him. I said oh so this is a date now? He said he would certainly hope so... I texted him when I got out of class and he said he didn't want to make me cook for him because he felt bad to eat my food. I said that was fine cause I wasn't going to cook for him anyways but i still wanted to chill with him sometime. He invited me over to come hang out for a little while, but I was studying for a final with one of my friends so I said I could come over later and he said he was going out later. so we didn't hang out, and he didn't respond to my last text which was asking what he was doing today.
Is this guy really interested in me since his roommates called me his girl, and called us hanging out a date. Or do you think this guy is just messing around with me and doesn't really give two sh*ts?
- Emily - 01-20-2013 04:24 PM
Hes flirting so at the least he is attracted to you, but hes not "interested" considering he doesnt really know you. you sound like you have a handel on things. keep it casual like it is and dont be too worried its just the beggining
- Maia - 01-20-2013 04:24 PM
hmmmm... if his age is below 22 I'd say he's just fooling around
I think you need more time to know if he's really interested or not, try to be friends and hang out abit more in order to know
maybe he likes you, but relationship needs time to grow
you try your best and good luck
- Antares - 01-20-2013 04:24 PM
Well, based on the information you have provided, it is hard to tell. Thus, I am going to put myself in his shoes. Normally if I hook up with a girl at a party or something, I would not ask her to give me her number unless I have some sort of interest in her beyond just hooking up. The fact that he asked you to give him your number means he is interested in seeing you outside the bar. My guess is that he wants to get to know you better, and possibly want a relationship. However, it's possible that he is looking for some type of a booty call as well. If you really like this guy, I would try to contact him later when you have some time to arrange a hang out. If you meet up with him, then it should be pretty obvious to you intuitively what his intentions are. Otherwise, speaking in my perspective as a guy, he is probably interested in you. I would be more worried about what kind of a guy he is based on how his friend talked to you. Hope that helps
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