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Is it normal that the girl you love makes you feel insecure ? - sillyNinja997 - 01-24-2013 01:28 PM
So I really love this girl. She was teasing me but it was going too far so I told her. She said she'll stop and then unfollowed me on twitter. She didn't text me for a week so I thought she was mad and I asked her. She didn't answer so I said that if she was mad and didn't want to talk to me I understood. 3 days later she answered saying that she didn't have the time to read her messages cause of her exams. So I felt a bit stupid for over thinking and I asked myself if I wasn't being a little bit insecure.
Is it normal that I feel insecure like this ?
And do you think this is a turnoff or is it cute if it happens from time to time ?
- Shadow in the Dark - 01-24-2013 01:36 PM
The girl I like makes me feel horribly insecure. I'm always afraid of being too clingy, or insulting her, or intruding, or making her unhappy in some way. As far as I'm concerned, it's normal, however it's not the way to get a girlfriend. I wouldn't like it if the person I was going out with was too embarrassed to say anything, and while it's touching if they jump to reassure you, it gets a bit frustrating.
- Chris - 01-24-2013 01:36 PM
It's normal for most guys to feel insecure around women. The key is to overcome that and show confidence when you are in a relationship. It is definitely a turn off to be insecure. Show some confidence and if she continues to blow you off find yourself a new girl.