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Can you "become" an alpha male? - A - 01-26-2013 11:35 PM
I had a sheltered life, raised very old-school. At 14 I didn't even know sex was necessary for procreation. I ended up losing my virginity at 22, to an obese, overpriced prostitute. I was and still am all about poetry, personal culture and idealism. This started to change when I moved out and lived on my own for two years, working as a ghostwriter. I had some exposure to the world and learned more about human nature. It really is a mixture of a Neanderthal and Machiavellian place.
I heard "alpha males" have genetic and developmental traits. They're usually sons of alpha males, growing up in competitive and somewhat vulgar and violent environments. They're physically imposing. They become social animals early on, dominating any setting, fighting other alpha males, signing beta males on as "sidekicks," and all the girls want to be with them. This seems true in light of the "alpha males" I've known.
So I guess my question is, does one ever "become" an alpha male? I'm looking for a realistic answer. I never paid much attention to the "online dating expert community" and I don't really value the marketing of any "relationship guru."
I'm 24 now if it matters.
- P-i-x-4-r - 01-26-2013 11:43 PM
Why does the beginning sound like a narration to like a new tv show or a movie???
- Pilot - 01-26-2013 11:43 PM
Oh definitely.
Becoming an alpha male depends ENTIRELY on the attitude.
- Gentlemenclam458 - 01-26-2013 11:43 PM
yes, when all the other alpha males die.
"alpha" simply means "first"
It was found that physiologically speaking (in wolf groups and primate groups) a female can become an alpha, as there is a certain hormone footprint in those individuals. Older females can even develop male characteristics (such as a crest on a gorilla).
- Ronnie - 01-26-2013 11:43 PM
As an alpa myself.Im not sure it can be taught. However I do believe you can develop the mindset to have you come across that way. It often looks funny though. Basically just be yourself and do what you do best.