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My 12 year old daughter is out of control!!!? - Kati Elizabeth - 01-29-2013 06:32 PM
I have a 12-year-old daughter who will be 13 in a few days. She was homeschooled up until 4th grade. ever since 5th grade (she's in 7th now) she has started to change. she used to be very classy and smart and get good outstanding grades. Now she is acting out of control and just like those other kids at her school. She is completely out of control. Her name is Caroline, but ever since 5th grade she started calling herself "Brinley" and she says she changed her name because she thought her name Caroline was ugly and she said Brinley was her stripper name. She used to have long brown hair. She bleached her hair blonde. She also got her lip, belly button, eyebrow, and nipples (!) pierced. Plus she got three more ear piercings. She is wearing super short shorts all the time that show her buttcheeks and tops that barely cover her boobs and expose her belly button. She also wears these really short pleated skirts that show her butt when she bends over, and when it's colder outside she wears really tight yoga pants/sweatpants (of course,with the words on the butt)or super skinny jeans. She never leaves the house without her belly button and/or legs exposed. She also wears gigantic hoop earrings. She also wears ten pounds of makeup on her face every day and she wears so much damn lip gloss her lips look like someone injected ten pounds of collagen into them. She sneaks random boys into her room and has sex with them. I found birth control and condoms in one of her drawers. She has sex with guys from the high school. She actually skips class and goes up to the high school and flirts with the boys there. I got a phone call from the high school saying that my daughter is going up to the high school and that she should be in the middle school. I even heard that she was caught having sex in the school bathroom 5 times! She was even caught having sex in the schoolyard AND ON THE SCHOOL BUS!!!!!!!!! I went through her phone and I saw NAKED PHOTOS of herself on the phone being sent to random boys from the high school and I saw naked photos of the boys on her phone, too! I went through her Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter accounts and she is hooking up with random boys and flirting with them! I saw a bunch of provocative photos on her Instagram account and Facebook account! Her Facebook profile picture is her taking a mirror picture with her wearing a pair of tiny spandex short shorts and her wearing a tight bandeau top with her belly piercing out! I also found cocaine and weed in her room and she has pictures of herself smoking weed! She also drinks alcohol all the time and she says her favorite brand of beer is Heineken! I found a can of Four Loko in her room! She also has a terrible attitude with me and she sasses me all the time and she even hit me once! She is always getting suspended from school and her grades are in the toilet. She is also violent. Apparently a 6th grader "looked at her wrong" and she beat her up and broke her nose! She is always getting into fights and she is always beating people up in school. I heard she stuffs kids in lockers and she hung someone to a coat hook by their underwear! She also cussed out a teacher and cussed out the principal! She called her English teacher an ugly a** c*nt and she called her math teacher an ugly b*tch and called the PE teacher a lesbian. She hit her English teacher and one time she beat up this disabled girl "just for fun" and she put a girl's head in a toilet and flushed it! She also broke a girl's cell phone just for fun! She is becoming out of control and her slutty, bullying behavior is very unbecoming. I tried punishing her, giving her time outs, taking her phone and computer, even whooping her a**! And nothing worked! She doesn't give a f*** what I say and does what she wants to! I want her to STOP! She is setting herself up for a complicated life! Plus, her father is sick! He has lung cancer! But apparently she doesn't give a damn about her father! How do I make her stop!
- jefferson - 01-29-2013 06:40 PM
Spare the wire coat hanger, spoil the child.
- Chris - 01-29-2013 06:40 PM
She's a whore.. have a good talk with her and let her know how her future will be if she keeps it up.
- Ashlyn - 01-29-2013 06:40 PM
Seriously expected me to believe this? I am 13 in middle school an I know what the rules are. They have dress code. And in order to get out of a class you have to get permission. If teachers were smart they would tell her no or escort her. School can only suspended people so many times before they r kicked out. Step it up take her out of school and watch her.
- Lauren - 01-29-2013 06:40 PM
im sorry to say this..but your daughter...would be called a slut, a whore,my words are speechless from her..:/ she just wants the attention from the boys.. and the only thing i can tell u is not let her dress like that ,get her piercings away from her, and maybe she needs to go to private school..:/ and to take her phone away..delete her facebook or any social network for boys to see her..shes probably gunna get pregnant,have no life, and be a prostitute her whole life.., im sorry to tell u that..but its the truth...ive NEVER heard of a girl being like that. And u sound like a great mother, but need to discipline her!! Hoped i helped(: and i hope ur husband gets better! im praying <3
- Mary - 01-29-2013 06:40 PM
What I don't get is how she got all her piercings...and all this money for these slutty clothes...
But anyways, take all these clothes and throw them out...burn them...don't give her any money...don't do anything for her, don't make her lunch, no bus fare, no shoes, NOTHING! Don't make her food, NOTHING. And, completely ignore her unless she damages something in your house, then you can beat the SHIT out of her. When I mean beat the SHIT out of her, I mean take a freaking stick and beat her til she cries. You must break her spirit...seriously...this is the only way to do things. Then you can start rebuilding her from the ground up...
Honestly...you need to practically abuse her for her to get the message...
- MissLothrop - 01-29-2013 06:40 PM
This is ridiculous. While I could rant,I won't. As much as you don't want to be really tough on her, you're going to have to be, unless you want to be a grandparent within the next year or two. Take her to a therapist, because there has to be a reason she's acting like that. Make her change her name back to Caroline, that fact that she has a "stripper name" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Delete her Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc. Make her take her piercings out, and all of her jewelry, and get rid of it, sell it, whatever. Take her makeup away, and put it somewhere that you, and only YOU know where it is. Sell her clothes, and use that money to go shopping at like a thrift store for normal, parent approved clothes. As for the bullying, get her into anger management therapy or something. I know they have programs (haha, like in Drake and Josh) where they will simulate what it's like to be processed and put into jail. Isolate her from all other people, and give her an early curfew.
- PureAmethyst - 01-29-2013 06:40 PM
Like mother, like daughter.
Congratulations! Your baby girl turned out to be a trashy, used up, gross, sex obsessed, rebellious, nightmare!
Toodooloo!
- Chelsey - 01-29-2013 06:40 PM
all of this could be because of serious problems. being introduced to sexual stuff when you are super young can really change you and make you bad. maybe she was malested or raped or somehting. seriously take her to a therapist. and if its not that... maybe watch the movie thirteen. no kidding. she could be having serious feeling alone issues and trying to find it in guys, so maybe you need to be there for her. either way, make sure its not some very tragic problem before you bring out the whip and punish her. (im not saying dont tell her whats what. definitely be stern.) it could also be friends, try moving. friends make a huge impact in you life. (like in the movie thirteen) but no matter what, your her mom, and you need to be there for her. so try your best to show her you care, and find an awesome therapist.
- Helga - 01-29-2013 06:40 PM
You are the parent. Where were you when she pierced all of her body parts? Have a good talk with her before she becomes a professional slut (even though I guess she already is)