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Should I stop talking to her if I still care about her? - john - 02-01-2013 01:32 AM
Over the summer I liked one of my friends. We would hang out all the time. We would laugh with each other mess with each other and just have fun. I told her how I felt but she didn't feel the same. That was somewhere in about earlier June. Things didn't work out. I still talked to her occasionally but not as much. It seemed like she just didn't want to be my friend anymore. So I stopped talking to her. I would avoid her as much as I could, which ate me up inside. All our friends said we would always be so flirty. I didn't see it at the time but looking back now I can. I didn't see her or talk to her for about 2-3 months. But one day I decided to text her. I talk to her again now, kinda like it was before but not exactly. I still care about her so much. But I can't tell her that. It wouldn't work and I can never see her anymore. But she likes this guy who isn't right for her. They've never gone out but he's hurt her before and I know it'll happen again. Knowing she's hurt and will get hurt even worse and theres nothing i can do for her absolutely breaks my heart. She always said how sweet and nice and funny I am. But I guess not enough. What REALLY irritates me is how on twitter and Facebook and other sites she always puts up that garbage about always being single and being too ugly or too fat or something ridiculous and no one will ever like them. Well I think she's beautiful, but apparently I don't exist. And there was really no one else around at the time I told her how I felt either. It's like I wasn't even there at all. It gets under my skin so much and it bothers me so bad. I really do care about her. More than anyone. Should I just let her go and be done with it?
- Lyndsey - 02-01-2013 01:40 AM
If I were you, I wouldn't give up. If you care about this girl so much, you need to talk to her about it again. Even if you have to settle for friendship, you obviously want her to be in your life! Just hang in there and show her what a great guy you are! (:
- PrettyFace - 02-01-2013 01:40 AM
yes but it is easier said than done
- Yo wassup, bro? - 02-01-2013 01:40 AM
If you've tried talking to her twice and she didn't really seem to have the same feelings towards you that you had towards her, it's probably best to just let it go. If she doesn't really care about you the way you care about her and you start a relationship, it won't go very well because you'll care about her but you probably won't get the same back from her. My advice is to let it go and find someone who cares about you the same way you care about her and your relationship will be perfect because you will both enjoy it
