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How can I get with this guy? - Jordan - 02-28-2013 07:13 PM
Ok, so basically there's this really....proper guy. And I sorta like him. I'm 15 he's 17/18 (he's a senior and I'm a sophomore). I only met him this yr cuz of this club were in (he's the president). I actually never even spoke to him, but from what I can tell he's the mr goody twoshoes that all teachers love, he gets a 4.0, took all the ap classes, and he's like 6ft tall and he always dresses...professionally. Like, he never has Jewlery on or a Bennie, he dresses in khakis (NEVER jeans), has a long sleeve shirt on that isn't any brand that most guys wear (they're usually from the men's section, his clothes) and he never dresses in sneakers he always dresses in these fancy guy shoes (basically, he dresses like he's a professional businessman). And sometimes he comes to school in a tux and a tie and a briefcase (it looks really nice on him) for no reason. He also never cusses and he's a really "clean" guy (for someone his age...he doesn't even laugh at dirty jokes). I am personally really impressed with his maturity and I can honestly say I'm attracted to him. Problem is he's never had a girlfriend in his life (didn't even hold hands with a girl yet) so idk what his type is but I have a 4.0 and I'm Harvard-crazy so we have that in common, plus I'm every ap teachers "favorite". But from I can tell he's a really nice guy and everyone loves him (to me it almost feels like I'm talking to a grown up whenever I talk to him). As I've stated before I never really talked to him but whenever we pass by in the hallways he always smiles ad waves at me for no reason (always he the first one) so i added him over Xmas break on Facebook (he's on there 24/7) and even changed his profile pic when we came back and he NEVER responded to the request (never rejected it either....) and he adds EVERYONE in his club, so idk why he didnt add me :'( Now we came back, i did encounter him and he looked at me i looked away and i saw him smile @ me shyly but im too scared to go talk to him tho :'( Help????????
- Fanny - 02-28-2013 07:16 PM
Keep your eyes open for moments to connect with him casually. At the end of the next club meeting, stop him to say "thank you" for something. Thank you for doing such a good job with the club, or for a suggestion he made. After a week or so, find a moment to tell him you really like his tie, or something. Always walk away after listening to his response to the casual comment to show you're not hanging on him. Get him used to occasionally hearing your voice and seeing your smile. If he's interested, he'll let you know.