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Anyone else thinks this sounds suspicious? - john - 03-25-2013 04:39 PM
My girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 years. She goes to school 2 hours away and has always been 'friends' with this one guy named ben. Well every once in a while when shes on facebook i will see her talking to ben (which is ok). But im starting to get suspicious of her and hacked her facebook tonight. I see that theres a year and a half period where she hasnt messaged ben even though ive seen her message him in that time frame. So the only conclusion i can come up with is that shes trying to hide something and deleted the old messages. I know they had a thing for about 6 months and that was a few months before her and i got together, but she said they only fooled around a few times. So why is it that she deleted all messages from when we've been dating except a few from a few days ago???
- Breanna - 03-25-2013 04:47 PM
I think the only (and right) way to do this, would be so confront her right up. Honesty is a key aspect in relationships, and if you feel she isn't being honest, perhaps it's not the best time for yous to be together.
- Jennifer - 03-25-2013 04:47 PM
why do you conclude that she has deleted messages? perhaps, like any platonic friendship, she goes through phases of being closer to him and periods of not seeing him or really socializing with him. She didnt know you were going to access her fb, so it seems like she thought she had nothing to hide
- Kevin - 03-25-2013 04:47 PM
there might of been personal content but most likley it was from trying to hide what she said so you wont susoect anything
- hugpete - 03-25-2013 04:47 PM
Regardless of what you think she's doing, hacking her FB account is a HUGE violation of privacy and completely unacceptable behavior. Communicate! Talk to her! Talk to him! Don't do sneaky things behind her back (and don't say that she did it first so that makes it right).
- SGM - 03-25-2013 04:47 PM
After 2 years of dating, she is still in contact with an ex boyfriend. That's known as a Red Flag. Another red flag is that she is 2 hours away from you so you don't have weekly dates. You're likely on the way out.
- Andbad 2 - 03-25-2013 04:47 PM
why do u think its ok to invade her privacy, its not. if she wants to mess around with others she can and nothing u can do about it except leave her. same goes for u ur both full grown adults not married so why do u think its ok to spy on her. u don't need a reason to break up w/her but invasion of privacy is a damn good reason for her to break up w/u