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why is my boyfriend afraid to show our relationship on facebook? - Alicia - 03-27-2013 12:15 AM
I am having a big problem.I am with my boyfriend of one year( we started dating last march) .In the beginning of the relationship he would call me every night and day and keep in touch .Now he goes a few days without even reaching out to me.Since the beginning of our relationship,he told me he did not want to advertise our relationship on facebook because it causes drama,mostly because when he was with his ex, he put a picture of them two and all the girls he had on his facebook wrote rude comments.Now we took a picture last summer and he said he wasn't going to put it up because of what happend with his ex.So since then,both of our relationship statuses on facebook have read single.Its like he is ashamed to show I am his girlfriend.Now also,on my birthday in december,he didn't write me happy birthday or anything on my wall obviously because he don't want people knowing we are together.So today,his ex girlfriend,who he is still friends with on fb,and is married,He writes Happy birthday on her wall like its nothing.And she is his nationality,Russian-jewish.i think he is ashamed that I am not Russian jewish and he still has feelings for this girl>.Why is he afraid to show us off on facebook ? I know it shouldnt be a big deal ,but it is to me.If a simple thing like facebook is too hard for you to show us off on then real life is even worse.He wont even go places with me.What should I do ?
- Allie - 03-27-2013 12:23 AM
To me, that's kinda a red flag. Tell him that the worst they can do is be rude and you guys can block those girls
- Morgan Mccoy - 03-27-2013 12:23 AM
I think he still has feelings for his ex and you should let him. I hater to say it, but if he isn't ready you shouldn't be. You should break up just to see what he does. If he wants you back, he will get you back with hopefully a apology.
- pookypoo - 03-27-2013 12:23 AM
looks like a red flag to me. its pretty clear he still has feelings for her.
- John Doe - 03-27-2013 12:23 AM
How can he be Russian Jewish when Stalin killed off all of his Juice
- Mady - 03-27-2013 12:23 AM
he sounds like a douchebag, you can try to get him to block those girls. if he really loved you, it would NOT f*cking matter what those girls say.
- Tiffany - 03-27-2013 12:23 AM
you poor thing! look, like i always say,"if he doesn't kick in, kick him." If he's too embarrassed to be show that he's with you, then don't bother to stay. Look, I understand that you've been with this guy for about a year, but if he acts like that, then i don't think he'll change. I bet your a wonderful, beautiful girl, and if he doesn't see what he has is "good enough" then he doesn't deserve you. If he plays around with you like that, I would've said "bye" a loooooong time ago. But i can assure you that there's a guy somewhere out there, that can appreciate you.
- santie - 03-27-2013 12:23 AM
Well its clear that his feeling for you have changed , and you can easily see that he cares more for his EX then for you the best thing is either to address the problem to him or break-UP,his talking bullshit about facebook and for not walking anywhere with you if its for religous reasons then he has a point but he shouldn't treat you like that its not right and you can't let him think its ok with you.