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Is it a good idea to meet up with this married guy? - Penny - 04-15-2013 09:57 AM

There is this guy who tells me I'm beautiful, and he wants to meet up with me and get to know me as friend. He's married with a couple of kids. He's mentioned his wife and kids and says that he loves them. He messaged me on Facebook last week and said he really wants to see me and hopes he gets to see me soon. I have friends of all types: married, single, and dating. Is there a reason this guy wants to see me badly b/c he's married? Is it a good idea to see him anyway? I don't plan to be anything more than just friends.


- Jake Anderson - 04-15-2013 10:05 AM

Be very careful and keep in mind the following questions, is it worth the risk?


- Alanna - 04-15-2013 10:05 AM

Just be careful, do not get into an affair, it does sound like that are his intentions, but you never know..goodluck.


- Richard - 04-15-2013 10:05 AM

If you let him know you just want to be friends, I'll bet his interest in you drops off very quickly. I suspect he's simply looking for someone to hook up with because his sex life at home is crap.


- Geoff - 04-15-2013 10:05 AM

It is okay, but if he try's anything book it.


- Marty - 04-15-2013 10:05 AM

I would say no. If the wife found out you have no idea what might happen. I think he might have a reason he is not saying. You be destroying a family if something happens. If you decide you want to meet go to a public place. Like a bar get some drinks. Does his wife know about you?


- tania - 04-15-2013 10:05 AM

Mmmm... I don't think I would trust his intentions. If he wanted to be just friends, he wouldn't be telling you how beautiful you are. Sounds like trouble to me.