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My ex won't answer me? I'm really worried!? - Sydney - 04-25-2013 10:52 PM
Since he doesn't have a phone, I keep up with him on Twitter.
I said last night that maybe we won't work out, & he said he didn't want anyone else. I said I was sorry again & he didn't answer until an hour later ; he was crying & he said he loved me & always will, but he needed to calm down before he said something he regretted.
Right now is the usual time he gets on to talk to me. He hasn't read any of the messages I sent him. He only knows I wanted to break up. I'm really worried, I felt bad he cried over me, but I'm really worried because I don't know what hr has been doing all day, if you understand.
Please help. I don't know what else to think. Should I go back with him, too?
- Lainie - 04-25-2013 10:56 PM
You broke up with the guy. He is upset with you. Let him grieve. Not many men do that so consider yourself lucky that someone loves you enough to do that.
By the same token, don't go back to him out of sympathy. Men sometimes are immature and will play on your sympathy and end up destroying you. It's male ego to do that.
- Misunderstoodweek335 - 04-25-2013 10:59 PM
You’re the one who broke up with him. He’s upset. Leave the guy alone.
- Katey - 04-25-2013 11:13 PM
I think that y'all need to keep separate for a while. Breakups are tricky business because emotions get wild and then people end up doing things they don't mean or say things they don't mean. There's a reason why you two broke up in the first place, or else it wouldn't have happened. Give him some time to think things through, bc it'll give you time to relax and think as well. After a few days, message him, or ask him to talk in person. Take it slowly. If you end up together again. Make sue its a mutual feeling and not out of sympathy. Just because he's upset doesn't mean you should jump back into a relationhip with him to make him feel better, bc it's not fair to either of you, you know?
Just take it slow, don't worry, and things will work out (: