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What to do when an ex friend copies your personality and interests? - HarryPotterFanatic - 04-28-2013 12:42 AM

I was friends with this girl a year or two ago, and we fell out real bad. We got over the fight but we both moved on and made different groups of friends. This girl in particular though still has some sort of grudge against me, I try not to connect with her over social media in fear that fights will start again, however one website she has managed to find me on she tends to stalk what I'm doing/ my interests. All of a sudden she's listing all these people I adore as people she adores, and all of a sudden has the exact same interests as me, it's very odd. And these aren't mainstream people I adore either, so it's obviously the fact that I like them. She won't admit that she found out about these people through me, even though it's obvious she has. It's really bugging me, what should I do?


- twilight - 04-28-2013 12:55 AM

she obviously has self confidence problems and admires you more as a person than herself. Since you and her arent friends anymore and dont talk there isnt that much u can do except set ur stuff as private and block her. If you did talk to her then u should tell her it bothers you and that she should find herself and love herself becasue she is a great person


- Sunshine - 04-28-2013 01:05 AM

Stop being her friend completely....n use a different email address for ur social media websites one thay she won't know


- Duke - 04-28-2013 01:08 AM

Ah. It seems you're experiencing one of my greatest fears... The only thing doing the situation like this is just to act casual. When she sees that she doesn't get a rise out of you she'll leave you alone. And if she doesn't just ignore her. If she chooses to go into your world and there's no reason that you should avoid her or do things on her terms; she's the trespasser here this is your world and she knows it


- khori - 04-28-2013 01:16 AM

Ignore it. If you weren't checking up on her too, you wouldn't know what she's interested in either. I bet you're in high school and everything with friends seems like scandal but it's nothing trust me. The older you get the more you fall out with "friends". You are becoming you. An individual. Original. You understand what you like and why. She is obviously still trying to find herself and is confused. Continue to be you and remember that imitation is the best form of flattery.