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*HELP!* How can i get over her? - James - 05-06-2013 06:51 PM
If I'm completely honest to myself deep down I know my life completely revolves around her and it has done so for almost 3 years now. I check her Facebook every now and then if I haven't spoken to her to see if I can figure out why, I'm a lot more interested in her life than she is about mine. About 6 months ago I got to the point where I was happy and content as I knew she would never be mine, I stopped paying interest in her and moved on.
BUT since that point unaware to me she figured I liked her and used me because she didn't have another choice to go to prom with and I've found all this out since. She doesn't like me at all, I heard her saying how there would "be so much more boys at college next year" and she goes on about other boys and flirts with them and is interested in their statuses on Facebook etc but she doesn't care at all about me. Since I've been going with her we had a 2 month period where we didn't even speak to each other. I'm so depressed and she even said that I am ugly (in other words) and she would never consider anything more than friendship with me. I've watched about 20 romcoms so I have stuff to talk about with her, I started going to her running club because she asked me and have done countless other things for her when she has never even considered doing anything for me. I did lots of other things and I have really low self-esteem right now. I nkow its ever so cliche but this girl truly was my world for about 2 years and 6 months. I got to the point where I was happy that we weren't ever going to be together as we never spoke and now since she's got closer to me and played me so well, I know who she really is and I despise her but I don't know why I still have such strong contrasting feelings for her and it's taking over my life!?
- A - 05-06-2013 07:05 PM
f*ck her best friend
- Chrisadam - 05-06-2013 07:15 PM
just be like your own
go and tell her what u feel about her
just express your words lovely
im sure she can loves you back
dont forget to give a gift ok
- Ryan Perry - 05-06-2013 07:31 PM
You got to get out of that spiral. I think almost every dude has been in this situation at least once in his life. Start doing the stuff you want do, not want you think will get her to notice you. Unfriend or block her on facebook so you aren't even giving yourself the option of noticing what she's doing, or who's she talking to. It may seem really difficult to just abandon this now but you'll be glad you did at some point later on. It's not healthy
- Jeff - 05-06-2013 07:41 PM
Murder her
- Kourtney - 05-06-2013 07:44 PM
You're the male version of me. Even the timeline matches up. It's all the same. I cut my friend out of my life 4 days ago. It was the hardest thing EVER!!!! And let me tell you this.. I told him I didn't want to be friends anymore and that he hurt me by doing the same things your girl does to you... he called the next day and never again. They don't care, they use. You need to get away from it like I did. It isn't really better but at least I'm not his little doormat.