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I dont have a single guy friend and have neve had a boyfriend? - Kasi - 05-27-2013 09:47 AM
whats wrong with me? why dont guys like me even as friends? i mean i know im not an attractive person but im not that ugly ether. im a very caring, nice and trust worthy person. i dont get why they wont even be my friend. i know its not cause there to shy.
when i acttually do get guy friends theyre great for awhile, then they turn into complete jerks. it only ever lasts a month or less. i dont understand. am i just gonna be forever alone or am im gonna have to wait until im way to old for it to matter?
- Mr. Sonny - 05-27-2013 09:51 AM
Give it time-don't come off as desperate.
- awesomecocoo - 05-27-2013 09:54 AM
Guys--no, everyone--- gets tired of hanging out with the same people for some time. It might be that or they get comfortable with you and tease you which might come up as being a jerk.
- Kayla chase - 05-27-2013 10:01 AM
Give it some time. When you get a boyfriend youll become friends with his friends
- shelbaphernelia. - 05-27-2013 10:09 AM
girl , i feel your pain. like, i feel the exact same way this question makes me feel a lot less alone. i have guy friends but we aren't like 'hanging out' close. but i think we'll find someone at some point, hopefully soon.
i've had two boyfriends, one just didnt work out, and the other ended in a disaster to my happiness. but hey, if you need a friend or to talk or anything, hmu on twitter. (: like, you'll find someone i promise. heck, im not going to prom because of my last ex..
just, try to keep your head up, and definately hit up my twitter if you wanna talk or something. i know how crappy you feel, and i know having a friend can help. <3
- Kayla - 05-27-2013 10:18 AM
aw don't worry, the guys will come around! I've actually just made my first guy friend this year xD so don't sweat it, they WILL come! best of luck
- Blue - 05-27-2013 10:20 AM
Just go to social hang out places where you'll meet people you have stuff in common with. If you enjoy skiing, go to a ski hill once a month. If you like working out, get a gym membership. If you believe in God, go to church and get involved in small groups. If you like bowling, join a league. If you like cooking, take a class. Etc. Just put yourself in a position where you can meet people who have things in common with you and you'll eventually find a guy.
- smallnotebook978 - 05-27-2013 10:30 AM
Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you. You probably just need to give it time. It doesn't matter when you get a boyfriend, so long as it's the boyfriend you want to spend the rest of your life with. And anyway, it doesn't really matter what gender they are, friends are friends, whether they're girls or boys. Try not to think about this, it's kind of silly to be thinking about these things. I've got a lot of guy friends and honestly, they're a bunch of idiots =P Most of them anyway.
So just give it time, try not to overthink things. You don't need someone to say it for you to be friends. You just are. So just talk to any boys you want and if they don't want to be friends, fine. If they do, great! c:
Good luck!