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boyfriend of two years has photos of an ex from 3 years ago on facebook getting up close, do i have a right to? - Aneeka! - 07-26-2013 05:10 PM
boyfriend of two years has photos of an ex from 3 years ago on facebook getting up close, do i have a right to be annoyed? when i asked him why he has them he completely avoided the question and asked me why im going through his photos... he doesnt even have ONE single photo with me, but he has a bunch of ones with her and him kissing/hugging, that kind of stuff, its like he doesnt even get why it makes me jealous, what can i do? i dont want to bring it up because if i do he's just going to remove them because ill tell him to, i want him to remove them because he wants ME and not her.
- anonymous - 07-26-2013 05:24 PM
TAKE PHOTOS WITH HIM! THAT SIMPLE!
- Anna - 07-26-2013 05:38 PM
Wow, he is clearly not over her. He is probably hiding something from you, too. When I asked my boyfriend to delete photos of his ex he did it immediately and I did the same, it wasn't even an issue. Tell him if she you are important to him then he will do it. If he doesn't then... You guys need to have a serious talk.
- john - 07-26-2013 05:49 PM
He obviously doesn't appreciate you. Don't settle, look for someone who will.
- Catan - 07-26-2013 05:51 PM
By NOTICING the pics & discussing your feelings, you may have weakened your hand. His ex has the pictures but you've got him. End of story.
- mintyhippo - 07-26-2013 05:53 PM
I'm sorry
just sit him down and talk to him. Ask him if he's really moved on and if he avoids the conversation then that tells you how invested he actually is. You have every right to be jealous. Its one thing to be lazy and never update anything, but it kind of sounds like its a bit more than that. Sometimes guys can be a bit clueless, they're not mind readers. So tell him what you feel and take it from there. Good luck
- Shelby - 07-26-2013 06:03 PM
Uh, it's time for you to get a new boyfriend girl!! He is obviously not over her. You deserve someone better.
- abraXus - 07-26-2013 06:18 PM
what's so bad about saving old pictures? maybe he wants to keep those memories, there is no harm in that