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Facebook - is this creepy? - Matt - 07-27-2013 09:01 AM
I recently made a facebook account and have around 20 friends from people I know. theres a girl I wanted to ask out, but found out she moved, so I thought of asking her out over facebook. Im just wondering, is it a little odd sending a friend request when I only have 20 friends, or does it really matter? If it is, how should I get more friends - talk to more real people I see in person, or start adding randoms? Thanks in advance, any help is greatly appreciated.
- Zhi Li - 07-27-2013 09:17 AM
If you have to ask if asking a girl out electronically is creepy, then you ARE creepy.
So, go for it.
A normal person has enough sense to know that a first date request should ALWAYS be in person.
So, you are abnormal.
It is not odd to send her a friend request if you know her. It sounds like you don't know her, though.
Otherwise you would have asked her out, one supposes.
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You apparently want to be a poser. That is, have your fb appear to convey a certain image. I personally value authenticity over appearance. But like attracts like, so go for it. You should be getting "suggestions" for people who know your friends to be friended, I do not understand your need to add "random" people.
- ntj - 07-27-2013 09:32 AM
only add people you know. dont add randoms. that's creepy. and talk to her face to face