+- Twitist Forums (http://twitist.com)
+-- Forum: Facebook forums (/forum-14.html)
+--- Forum: General facebook and life forums (/forum-25.html)
+--- Thread: Why do you think she ignored my facebook request :'(? (/thread-79830.html)
Why do you think she ignored my facebook request :'(? - JellyBean - 08-17-2013 07:06 AM
So i added someone I had a huge crush on a month ago. I don't usually stalk people, but then when I visited her timeline after a week, I saw that she'd accepted a LOT of people, but not me. That sucked. And I decided to ignore it. We had just one mutual friend. After a month or so, when I checked again, we had some 5 mutual friends. I was like "wtf -.- ". And I cancelled my req and sent a new one. (I know, I seem so pathetic T_T ). And again, after a week, when I checked, she didn't accept my req, but she did, a lot of others. I'm sure she knows me. And she does add people who she barely knows!
I'm like desperate to add her because we won't be meeting each other anytime soon.
Should I send her a message or something? Why do you guys think she ignored me?
- hollowcrook988 - 08-17-2013 07:21 AM
Stop trying to add her. You've tried twice. For whatever reason she doesn't want to add you. Let it go. Move on. Stop being creepy. You said yourself that this is borderline stalking. Stop.
- micksmixxx - 08-17-2013 07:27 AM
It COULD be that she simply doesn't want to be one of your contacts/friends, my young friend, or that she does recall you but found the attention, if any was given, offensive, or she simply MAY not like you, or doesn't want to have anything to do with you.
She MAY, of course, not want other people to know that she's accepted your request for fear of being ridiculed.
- Pradeep - 08-17-2013 07:42 AM
difficult to answer but still there might be some reason behind she is not accepting. may be she heard something bad about you. or may be she personally don't like you. don't cancel and send friend request again and again. it will irritate her. the best way is send her a message. a simple message. asking: how are you? how are things with you? what you doing etc etc. those messages makes sense. so give a try