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Can't get myself to message this girl? - PointofNoReturn - 11-22-2013 09:14 PM
Alright...I'm a freshman in college and I go to a relatively commuter school so it's not as easy as it should be to meet new people.
I'm a good guy, I think I'm decent looking and a good person. I don't use girls and I'm not a jerk or anything. But almost every girl I've seen move into college has been into these 6'4, musclehead boyfriends with a way different sense of humor than me....Hopefully you know what I'm talking about. Not like jocks, but just different.
I've always been sort of quiet, but I have four or five good friends at college so far. But I've been feeling like having a girl in my life. It's been a long time and the last girl I dated two years ago was a disaster. Really craving a normal relationship.
So, on our college FaceBook group (yeah, I'm this guy), there's a really cute girl on there that I friended. We've never talked and I've never seen her personally because she commutes, but she's really cute and nice from what I've seen. But I never ever make the first move...I have a bad fear of rejection because my confidence is nothing...
But I've been really feeling an urge to message her, but I don't want to feel like a creep. Guys do it on FaceBook...I've heard stories, but I'm not like a lot of other guys in a way. It's sort of out of my element, but I do want to try...but I don't know. Is it like creepy? I don't even know what I'd say.
I posted a status the other day saying "I need to meet some new people" and she liked it...so, maybe? I doubt it and she just generally agreed with me and liked it. But it got me thinking. Doubt there's interest, but it's SOMETHING.
- Bony T de B - 11-22-2013 09:24 PM
Wutz the question , get out there and treat her to your fresh scampi .