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- ♥;chloe - 09-30-2012 06:11 PM
If i was you, i would advise your partner to delete her off his online things. Remember to advise though, Because telling him could make him angry as he may think your dictating his life. It sounds to me , even though this girl treated him awfully, it was her first true love. And most people remain really attached to their first loves, sometimes this attachment does not affect the person. But when they see something that triggers a thought of them, memories come flooding in & that may be why she's trying to contact him. She's curious. The best bet is try not to get involved, if you do your partner may think your jealous. Just put it to the back of your mind
- Oh and remember, if he still had feelings for her he would be with her. But he's not he's with you!
- xbumblebeex - 09-30-2012 06:11 PM
Your man sounds extremely trustwothy so i wouldnt worry about her. If he liked her that much there is no way he'd have mentioned her to you. Hes prob just as worried as you are about her gettin in contact as she prob drives him mad. So just support him through this.....NEVER LET ANYONE INTERFEAR WITH A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS WORKING SO WELL! Be strong girl xx
- Markianna - 09-30-2012 06:11 PM
Honestly, it's no big deal. that girl is probably just still single, and really desperate. i don't think she'd take it as far as becoming a home wrecker, just to get him back. but then again i could be wrong.
- sexythang - 09-30-2012 06:11 PM
worrying isnt going to do you any good. hes being very open and honost with you about it and instead of talking to her he blocked her. if you cant ignore it and its really bothering you that much i would suggest simpley talking to him about it. hes been honost with you its only fair for you to be honost with him. good luck!
- chuckaroo - 09-30-2012 06:11 PM
dont let your assumptions get the better of you. you should trust him. he sounds honest. just trust that he can handle it himself. if he goes back to her then he's gonna go to her. there is nothing you can do. so there is really nothing to worry about. but i dont think that will happen.
- M.A.Gizzle. 305 - 09-30-2012 06:11 PM
Life is a Bitc* So Treated Like A Bitc*. theres no faithful realtioship. my dad cheats on my mom. my sys cheats on her boyfriend. Im married but separeted amd I cheat on her, she cheats on me. so yes hes cheation on you, so you go and you cheat on him. Life a bitch so treat life like a bitch. I the bigges Bitch theres is in this world Im married have a girlfriend and shoot out porno scences. so there you go fuck that his cheating on you, garantee, at least if he lives in miami then its a fact.
- Jessica E - 09-30-2012 06:11 PM
Your right you don’t need that drama but you obviously love this guy so that drama comes with him. I know exactly what you mean but you are going to become your own worse enemy if you don’t face the problem and be upfront about you feelings as well as your insecurities. Woman are scandalous and I personally don’t trust them you never know what another woman is thinking and a lot of times when they see someone happy even if they didn’t want them before they are going to do what they can to get a piece of that. Misery loves company. Truth is he told you and your right even though he shouldn’t ever know that not telling you is an options he did tell you which means he doesn’t want to have anything to do with her. For her to be asking him why he blocked her she obviously has to be pretty messy because a real woman would go away. You need to speak up let him know everything your telling me right now. Your scared, you love him but you don’t like the situation or having to worry on either or not he’ll end up falling for her or going back to her. Once he know s that you need to let him know that if he loves you he needs to do anything in your power to make sure you don’t feel that way. If he loves you he’s going to want you comfortable. While you are being direct with him and facing the problem don’t lose your cool. You’re a woman we have the power to make any man crazy use that to your advantage you need to up your game so someone doesn’t take your man from you. Try being a little more understanding even when you think he’s wrong/ Be nice to him compliment him and wear your best. Put it on him like you haven’t in a while and there for not only is he fighting her off but the reason of why he’s doing it wont stop running through his mind!! Good luck girl!!