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Best friend cheating? - Urumi - 02-19-2014 04:47 AM
So I let my best friend borrow my iPod for a week no biggy. But when I went to go log off her Facebook a notification popped up from one of our friends, so I clicked on it to close it and when I opened, it was sexts and nudes.. She's cheating on her girlfriend. I don't know what to do. Her relationship doesn't involve me. That's completely cool. But sexting with another girl while you're in a relationship. Not cool. I don't know what to do and I don't have anyone to talk to about it.. Help? I don't want to ruin our friendship..
- zombie - 02-19-2014 04:53 AM
I know its pretty fucked up but dont do anything. You dont want to get involved into her business. Stay drama free /:
- Apple - 02-19-2014 05:01 AM
honestly, idk what u should do , just be like hey i was on MY phone that i let YOU borrow and this poped out. so whats up ?:O
get me ? but be nice and dnt judge her and stuff like that
- Jason - 02-19-2014 05:17 AM
dont bring it up. Just occasionally when you are talking, ask her random questions (when relateing to the topic) if she loves her girl and things like that. And when if she says yes, say things like "do you have any other girls you like tho?" just girl talk, ya know? dont seem to serious, or suspicious. just ask them out of curiosity.... eventually she will start to feel bad, and probably stop.
- Jai - 02-19-2014 05:33 AM
If you get involved you might risk losing your friendship, but if you don't get involved you might end up feeling guilty for what you know but haven't spoken out about, it's definitely a tricky one ey!
I went through a similar situation, and I didn't speak out at the time but now the person who was being cheated on has found out.
Just maybe sit down with your friend and mention that you saw it, you don't necessarily need to get involved, just tell her it's wrong and she should consider her partners feelings. Let her know you know. Then end it there.
I think that's the best way anyway:-)
Good luck!
- Jai - 02-19-2014 05:46 AM
Talk to her about it and ask her what's sup and why is she doing it? she might be having doubts about her relationship or they might be going through a rough patch and just talk to her and ask her if she wants to talk about what you saw and if it is something serious then she should talk to her girlfriend.