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Serious relationship and porn????!? - Ray - 02-19-2014 05:35 AM
I caught a pornstar name on my bf twitter and he denied know who that was freaked out on me. I know its normal for guys to watch porn but for two years he has be completely serious about not watching porn. he thought its not necessary. well I found out he knows exactly who this person is. im afraid to confront him about because its not like he had sex with he just...gets off to her porn. im having trouble. idk if this is normal for him to lie about it. hes never lied to me before. idk if im hurt that he lied or that hes getting off to other girls or both. its not like he cheated but in away I feel kinda betrayed I guess. idk how to confront him about it. hes going to think I went threw his things. I didn't do anything but just look at the public part of his account where I found this stuff. when I seen the porn I just glanced at this phone not even thinking anything of it cuz he was right next to me using it. and he totally denied the fact that he knew what I seen. is this normal? should I be concerned? I feel like im not giving him his privacy and im being a bad girlfriend.
he doesn't actually know her, I just meant he knows what I was talking about and literally said "ive never seen or heard that name before" but its all over is account. I think its the fact that he has always said he hates porn and I find this while hes sitting next to me. so I asked him and he completely lied. I mean it bothers me that he watches porn just a little. it bothers me more that he lied about it and now I don't know how to confront him about lying because hes going to make it sound like its my fault and that theres something wrong with me.
he doesn't actually know her, I just meant he knows what I was talking about and literally said "ive never seen or heard that name before" but its all over is account. I think its the fact that he has always said he hates porn and I find this while hes sitting next to me. so I asked him and he completely lied. I mean it bothers me that he watches porn just a little. it bothers me more that he lied about it and now I don't know how to confront him about lying because hes going to make it sound like its my fault and that theres something wrong with me.
- Lor Boosie - 02-19-2014 05:38 AM
U should mind ur buisness
- chelslover_72 - 02-19-2014 05:49 AM
If I were you I would be upset too. But guys are guys and they are going to watch there stupid porn. I think it is weird how he knows the person. Like does her fantasize about her or what. You just don't know. I feel like I would let it be for as long as I could hold it in. Maybe talk to your friends about it instead of talking to him to get it off your chest.
- Define - 02-19-2014 05:55 AM
you need watch porn with your BF and when everything will be fine with your relationship.
- captainslone - 02-19-2014 06:02 AM
Well, porn is fine when guys are single. When they get into a relationship that should stop. They should want to stop. The only exception is if you two enjoyed it together which I take it is not the case here First off it's disrespectful to their girlfriend/wife. He knows it is or he wouldn't have tried to lie about it. The lying is bad for obvious reasons. You're perfectly justified to be upset. That having been said, it's possible this person could have been on his account for over two years and he just never got around to deleting it and forgot. In any case you two have a lot to talk about.