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I need some help make sure I'm not over thinking? - lisa - 02-19-2014 12:40 PM
Something has been troubling my boyfriend he has ignored me on and off for a few days. I kept quiet gave him his privacy but he wasn't even answering my texts. It wasn't like him he I said nothing was wrong even called me clingy.
When we were recently together he was continuously texting one of his old girlfriends. We were supposed to be having our time.
I am staying with him in a few days as I haven't seen him in a while because of my work.
He is no longer friends with his old girlfriends on Facebook ( dont mean to sound immature ). I get the feeling that is the reason for his quietness he even told me he hadn't been sleeping well. I have this feeling he has been deceiving me. Am I paranoid?? Do I gave the right to ask I am beginning to feel like a fool especially if he just wants to use me. He invited me to stay with him. It's hard to tell because he seems ok on the phone although yesterday seemed nervous. We havent chatted in the evening for a while. He was just in Facebook chat but signed off quickly
I feel like telling him nobody makes a fool out of me but I could be jumping to conclusions.
- Schuyler - 02-19-2014 12:40 PM
Sounds like he might be getting ready to jump ship; you need to talk to him face to face, not texting, and tell him you feel something is wrong.
- Sue B - 02-19-2014 12:48 PM
I hope your trip goes well, but it doesn't sound like you'll be returning as his girlfriend. If he's been acting like a bag head, don't put out when you get there. This will let you not be used!
- D R - 02-19-2014 12:51 PM
Well first off how old are you two and how long have you been dating?
Have you discussed and are you in a mutually exclusive relationship?
Depending on how long you have been dating, I'd say if he has been acting odd and ignoring you he is questioning his feelings for you and your relationship. I find it odd that he is still in contact at all with ex-girlfriends while you two are dating, that isn't right and depending on what is said in emails/texts....it can be considered a form of cheating. Cheating isn't just a physical thing, it is emotional too. How long has he been separated form any of these girls and are they married (or old enough to be married..)?
Is it possibly that you are clingy? If he says you are clingy ask him, in person or over the phone, how exactly are you clingy and when. Ask him for examples and situations so you can be aware of what you are allegedly doing. I don't know how you think he is making a fool out of you? He is obviously struggeling with his feelings or possibly fooling around on you...you don't know for sure and he hasn't done anything directly to you.
I personally wouldn't go and stay with him. If he want's to see you, tell him to come to you.