Discovered boyf has been cheating on me with his ex - felt angry but today feel really sad :( HELP!!!?

[Nicki]

Oh hunnie this is a horrible thing for any woman to go through and I'm so sorry to hear its happened to you. He is clearly a very immature man whose not ready for a committed relationship and doesn't have the empathy to understand how he's hurt you and the other woman. He needs to grow up and see the carnage that he has created with his childish foolish acts. He obviously doesn't realise the seriousness of his actions and needs to wake up and smell the coffee. It is NOT OK to go around treating women or any human being in this way!

Don't be sucked in by his efforts to reconcile with you. Don't lower yourself to his level, you do not deserve to be treated like that ever. Stay strong, take all your friends support, do not reply to his messages, and soon he will get bored and move on to the next woman whose emotions he can screw with. Hopefully this will make you a stronger person and help you distinguish between the good men in the world who treat you like a woman and deserve your love, and the lowlife that don't know the meaning of love and probably never will until they get a reality check. Do be aware that not all men are like this, you deserve and will find a great man one day who will chase you constantly with texts and calls and will make every effort to see you and will adore you.

Maybe you should go to his parents house and explain their sons actions and how upset it has made you, did his father never show him how to treat a woman? Tell them how you feel and that someone needs to have strong words with this boy, he cannot continue making womens lives a misery and using them in this way.