Why would an Ex boyfriend, whom I haven't spoken with in years be disappointed because I'm married.?

[Danny]

PLEASE... listen to me very carefully !!!

My wife recently did the same thing! She began talking to an ex-boyfriend on Facebook until it led to phone calls, which led to lunch, which led to a secret dinner, which led to sex... which leaves me with dealing with the horrors of infidelity.

The point is, affairs start out very innocent. I know you think you'll never do this but neither did my wife. We had an awesome marriage for seven years but apparently this guy, who I never knew, always had some kind of a psychological hold on her. Now it cannot be taken back and our almost perfect family has been destroyed.

Either-way, this is the worst thing I have ever been through... and my children aren’t doing so well either. I don't know if it can be repaired nor if I even want it to be at this point. Two months ago I was absolutely sure about my life, now I know nothing but misery and pain! Facebook is a bar that allows us to associate with individuals that would have otherwise been unacceptable in a marriage just a few years ago. Stay out of the bar !!!

Go home, work on any problems you have with your husband, kiss your children all the time and take pride in the life that you have created! Otherwise there will be repercussions for your actions. Lies come with an expiration date. I've seen so many people gamble the whole pile for even a single dollar more. I can tell you first hand that letting this go immediately will affect you not a single bit but pursuing this anymore will ruin the lives of everyone you care about.

Respect your husband, respect your children and for goodness sake... respect yourself. I hope you will do the right thing, you already know what it is.