Why is life so confusing and hard!?

[Reach Out]

Hey Lucy

Thanks for coming on here and talking about this because you are so brave and I hope you know that by doing this you are also encouraging others to talk about their issues as well. You have gone through so much and you are so young and I’m sure you are a lovely person and finding someone to love you for you is never easy, it takes time.

I think you need to build your confidence first before anything, you are important and you need to take care of yourself and once you feel confident then it’s easier to experience love confidently. I would like for you to read these factsheets and they might help you become more confident http://au.reachout.com/How-to-build-self-confidence

It’s great that you have made good friends to support you and even though your uni start wasn't what you expected that doesn't mean it won’t be good, it just means you need to try a positive approach, have a read on this fact-sheet, it might help you figure out what you can do when you get into that mood http://au.reachout.com/Self-help-strateg...depression

If you need to talk to people you can visit http://forums.au.reachout.com/ and there will be so many people keen to help and support you

I hope all goes well and that you find happiness and peace.
Take Care
Ruenhonx (On behalf of Reachout.com.au)