i still have really strong feelings for my friend..?

[Michelle]

Woooow usually I really wouldn't read all this, I'd get lazy but LOOOL it's so IRONIIIC cuz your story is seen in the guys point of view n I was in a similar situation but I'm a girl so I'd be the girls point of view hahaha any waaayz as a girl and how I was in a bad relationship that I never really wanted...I'd say she was scared and she really feels she can't trust anyone, but for her she feels safe with having you around so that is a definitely a good thing! The down side though, is that she is going threw the time of "who do I really like" "who is just a friend" "what am I really looking for?" she wants to be loved but all these guys keep making moves on her, making it confusing for her to know if she is flirting with the right guy for the right reasons! When a girl is heart broken n a guy that likes her try's to cheer her up, he is obviously going to try his best to make her happy but at the same time end up making a move! Some girls, if they aren't strong enough, end up falling for there flirtation because they want to feel secure and loved again, some do it to try and forget there heartbreak but it doesn't work so simply! This is what leads to a battle field, more than one or two guys trying to have one girl. The problem in this isn't te amount of guys but the fact that this one girl doesn't know what she wants! She needs girl-friends to help her stop all this nonsense and get her act together! Don't confess to her so early, she is not ready for a relationship, first ou need to help her get ways from these guys and all this conflict. She needs to find herself and see that she can be happy by herself! She doesn't need to be dependent of a man to make her feel better. Once she gets back on her feet....camly tell her you still have feelings for her but don't ask her out, see her reaction, and depending...maybe wait a day or two for her to think of her feelings then ask her out