Is it normal to have sex at this age?

[Chaz]

USRA, the answers are no and no. I'm not an old f@rt who still lives in the dark ages, because I know for a fact that many young people are secretly at it like rabbits with each other, but that does not make it right or normal, nor does it make it ok for you either.
Here are the facts:
- your body is still developing and emotionally you are unlikely to be ready for intimacy of that nature.
- sex bring with it personal responsibility, which I doubt your young mind can yet comprehend.
- sex is potentially dangerous because of possibly transmitted sexual infection
(from an infected person)
- even though you are still developing as a woman, you are highly likely to be able to conceive. Pregnancy is the last thing your young body and your future needs or wants at this stage of your life
- your virginity is precious. You will lose it only once. Make it an experience you want to remember, not forget. Plenty of boys and men out there who will gladly rob you of it and think nothing of leaving you a shivering and emotional wreck
- Before you have sex, you have to understand the sexual needs of boys, which will be much different to most girls. Boys will just want to f*ck. Most girls need more than that physical act.
- First time sex can be painful, d@mn uncomfortable and a down right disappointment
- And. 14 is well under the legal age of consent, unless you live in Holland. The legal age of consent is there to protect young people like yourself from abuse and sexual predators.

So even though some others may be doing it, save yourself for someone special, when it will have some meaning and when there is mutual pleasure and respect.