How to break up with a controlling boyfriend?

[JmP]

Honey, let me tell you the first thing you need to do. You need to reactivate your FaceBook account. There is no logical reason that you should not be allowed to have that. Second, you need to talk to him about what it is specifically that you don't like that he's doing. If he is not willing to change, you tell him that you shouldn't be treated like this, and that you're done. If he is willing to change, give it a month or so. See if you see a change. Everytime he messes up, you tell him that he did something you don't like. Tell him as soon as he does it though. If not, just tell him you don't think it's going to work out. That would be if you are willing to try and save the relationship. If you can't remember why it is you started to date him, and how it felt, then you could easily end it with no regrets. But if you can try and remember the feeling, you will most likely want to continue the relationship. Here's a good quote to tell him "I'm your girlfriend. Not your dog. You don't own me". It usually gets through to people.

good luck!