Is it ok to save picutres of your ex girlfriend?

[Milton]

People like to save memories even if they are past the event or the person in the picture. It doesn't necessarily mean that he has any present feelings for her but he did at the time.

I have a yearbook from HS that has pictures in it of several girls i went with during that four years of my life. Should I cut out their pictures just because I married someone else? One of the girls went on to become a minor film star. Should I not go to movies in which she has small parts?

It has to be judged in the context of how does he relate to the past. If he has a shrine to her and lights candles over her pictures, you don't have a boyfriend, you have a maniac. If he simply keeps memories of the past, he is normal and it doesn't mean he will leave you for her or even cares about her.

Judge him by how he acts. Is he kind and considerate of your needs? Does he flirt with other girls? Is he there for you when you need him? Does he give you any reason to distrust him in any behavior like secret phone calls or things other say about what they see when you aren't there? If the answer to all of these is positive, you have nothing to worry about. If it is negative, it has
nothing to do with her,he just is untrustworthy!

Best of luck. Judge him by what he DOES, not by what pictures from his past he saved.