How to through a great High School party?

[LadyQ]

Well that's kind of balls huh? You planned a nice quietism bonfire and some people went all crazy and hijacked it on you. Very bad manners on their end. Really since you were only planning a party for about twenty or so people who you know, those are the only people who are your guests and therefore the only ones who you need to worry about. Think about it this way. You're getting married and you plan a dinner for a hundred people. You wouldn't have to provide for crashes would you?
Anyhow it does make sense that you want this to be a great party and it most likely will be. I'm willing to bet that the people who are just showing up won't be expecting you to have food and stuff for them (doubly rude if they crash and expect food lol). They probably bring stuff n their own so I wouldn't worry. As for bringing things that they aren't supposed to, if they get caught with it then they will be the ones who are in trouble because even though the party is your is, it's in a public place and therefore everyone is responsible fr him or herself. Hope it's fun!