How do I find my mother?

[GrayPict]

You are still a minor and do not have the legal rights of an adult. As a researcher for many years and having worked with attorneys in locating the biological families of adoptees I can say that there is no "discreet" way that is free for the type of search you are talking about. I would wait until you are legally of age and then hire someone who specializes in this type of search. Most records on living people are protected by privacy acts and the general public cannot access them. You might try using face book, I understand that a lot of people do and it seems to be suggested a lot, I have no personal experience with it as I do not use Face book because of privacy issues.