What does the quote i'm tired of seeing myself through other people's eyes mean ?

[chickadee34]

I would take it to mean that your sister -- like many others today -- is tired of being judged by others and of feeling defined (and confined) by their judgments. The following quotes are related to what I believe your sister is referring to:

"It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else's eyes.’ ~Sally Field

"[People] in general judge more from appearances than from reality. All [people] have eyes, but few have the gift of penetration." ~Niccolo Machiavelli

“Other people's opinion of you does not have to become your reality.” ~Les Brown

“Patterning your life around other's opinions is nothing more than slavery.” -- Lawana Blackwell

"What you think of yourself is much more important than what others think of you." Seneca