to have or to not have engagement party?

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Rivers would, even if it is just the immediate families, for a Sunday BBQ. Or a brunch. It is just a fun idea to get together and be happy. You do not have to have gift giving, tell people no to that. Some people will have cards to give you, and that might be acceptible for you.
This is the time some relatives may take to hand down heirlooms, give a wedding present early like money that will be available for the wedding, give potential keepsakes like picture frames or cake cutting sets or toasting glasses.

The engagement parties are done differently depending where you are. Here, it is not so much about friends or co-workers, it is mostly about family.
If one is wealthy, then they can expect to be invited to one.

By etiquette, the bride's family gives the first party, and if they decline, then the groom's family gets a shot at it.
Anyone can give an engagement party that cares to..

Congrats!