What do i do when an ex is trying to talk to my friends and family?

[Carrie]

If you don't want him no more why is it up setting you so much that he is talking to your friends and sister? Truthfully, if their your friends/sister than they wont want him around them anyhow. you said the one friend logs off. Tell her from now on she shouldn't logg off that's letting him control her facebook time. Have you asked your sis why she's talking to them. Maybe their just humoring him because they don't want to be completely rude so their saying hi but other than that they are leaving him alone.

But if you really feel threatened then maybe you could tell your friends/sister to kick him off their page but that really isn't very fair. It's almost like you get to choose who can and can't be friends. You two broke up he didn't dump all of them. If you don't like him then kick him off your page and stay away but don't go all crazy and make your friends choose.

I could be wrong maybe in your circle of friends you were elected Queen Bee and only you get to choose who gets to be friends. Doesn't that sound silly... Think about it Sweetie Who cares who he talks too.. You should be happy that he's not harrassing you anymore. Right Or are you still wanting him??? If that's the case thenyou need to let the homegirls know you still want that and for them to step off. If they don't then you'll see who your friends are. And if you still like him you betta step up and take it before he does find someone new. I promise you it will not kill you to apologize to him and ask him back out...