My girlfriend just broke up with me. What can I do to get rid of the pain?

[j s]

Dude,

I know this is not as comforting as you may like.. You may have heard this before. But this is LIFE.

It's life now, the future, it's just life. Sometimes life is really good, other times, we have such terrible adversity and pain (eg) death of a parent, close friend... Your case, loss of a relationship..

Does it suck? Does it hurt like hell? Oh yea.. There are NO easy fixes and answers to these times that take place in our lifetime. This is what gives the older people in your life a license to give advice (which you probably never listen to) and will give YOU a license to pass on thoughts about tough times to others.

I'm sorry for the way you feel, I have felt this way MANY times in the years I have been alive and it really blows chunks. No other way to say it.

You've got to move on. This is where throwing all of your friends away for anyone... To spend all that quality time in your relationships is not such a good plan. You need true friends in times like this to lean on.. Chum up with some Buds and do what is it you did before it all went down. But either way, LEARN from this heart ache and grow... It's what we've ALL had to do.

Sorry it happened to ya man. But it's all of being HUMAN.