How can I be "Scene"?

[thornhail]

I know the general question is pretty retarded, but I couldn't think of a different way to phrase it. I want to be scene, but I don't want to be a poser, I hate posing, and if I tried to be scene, would I be called a poser? Because if I would be, I would give up of being scene. I really like the style, and the hair, and of course, the MAKE-UP! Guys, please do not call me a poser, or anything like that, just tell me if I try this will I become a stupid fake poser. I am seriously already into vibrant colors, and skinny jeans, I suck at hair, but I can do good if I try, I just need tips and pointers. Just please don't be mean.