Why are there so many fatherless black boys?

[Tiffany]

Black boys aren't the only race with no father in their lives. Many children have fathers and mothers that leave. You should be mad, but not only for the black boys. White boys AND girls, Indian boys and girls, Mexican boys and girls... have fathers that leave. Sorry to say it, but feeling sorry for them will not help in the least. When I was 4, my father (who was black) killed my mother (who was white.) Anytime I had a problem, it was blamed on the fact that I had no parents. So many people felt sorry for me for that reason. I was never Truly able to get help for anything that went on in my life because no one ever tried to find out what was actually wrong. Now, I'm extremely emotional and don't have a single person in the whole wide world who I consider a friend. I cry every time I get on Facebook because I think about the life I could have had if only someone had asked what was wrong, instead of telling me that all my problems rooted from not having parents.
So I suggest to you, stop feeling sorry or angry about these boys not having a dad, and just love them. They don't want your sorrow. They are most likely extremely strong boys, and completely used to the fact that their father is gone. It doesn't hurt them now like it did at first. People do get over things as big as that, especially if it happened a while ago. If they don't know their father, they may wonder what he was like, of if they are anything like him, etc. But the sadness/anger they felt, heals. Life does go on. Even for fatherless black boys.