How long should i wait before contacting him?

[Cindy C]

Hey girl!

It sounds like you should forget about it. You don't want to be with a guy that has a girlfriend. If he shows interest in you while he has a girl, that says A LOT about his character. He is not a loyal person, he is not a committed person, he is trouble! I would also ask you, what does this say about you? Do you respect commitment? Do you really want to encourage cheating? I think this situation reveals a lot. Ask yourself some questions. I know what it's like to meet someone, think their cute and want to be with them without even asking yourself, "What the heck am I doing?" So ask yourself that. Hopefully you realize that your trying to cause this guy to cheat in order to get with him when you just met him last night and know nothing about him really, it's just not even almost worth the drama.

Don't do it to yourself girl!