I have tried to post a something on my boyfriends wall and it keeps dissapearing and then it removed us both ?

[mabelle_dj]

Sounds like your boyfriend either deleted your comments or someone who knows his/your password has been deleting your posted comments. Only the person who posted a message and the person who owns the wall can do this. So it's either he did it himself out of embarrassment or someone he/you know has his/your password or has hacked into his/your account and deleted your comments.

It also sounds like you were removed from his list of friends and put on the block list. Again, this was done either from his account or your account. Check your blocked persons list and see if he's been blocked from you and vice versa. Since other people can still find you, it doesn't sound like it's your privacy settings that have prevented everyone from finding you on Facebook.