My mom just looked through all my stuff?

[skyclover]

You don't sound like an ingrate. Wait a few days, things should calm down by then. She also invaded your privacy, so she's wrong there. Next time when you send messages, remember that they are recorded and that they can be made public someday, so you'll remember that you have to write carefully.

I did the same thing to my aunt. She got pissed, too. So I guess it's a natural reaction. But it's because she kept yelling at me and I didn't know what to do. She got me back for it, and she's okay now.