If your 12 year old daughter put up a Facebook page against your parental guidance what would you do?

[Patrona]

I would probably let her know that she broke one of my rules. Tell her she is to close her account and after a week or two talk to her on options about her facebook account both we can agree on for example:]
1. Have her open an account giving you her password to check her account
2. have no information on her profile like phone numbers address etc.
3. Have her profile set on PRIVATE only
4. Have her profile set on no accepting friends requests unless they send an email and you can supervise who gets to be on your child's face book.


about the boyfriend thing.. well i wasn't allowed even at 15 to have a boyfriend which i think she is lucky. I would probably ask her "boyfriend" to come over for a talk let him know directly that you do not agree that your child (because she is still way to young to know what a boyfriend should be)
should be dating at this young age. She should be only thinking of school. ,maybe try to scare her by asking her that since shes dating this guy you want to meet the parents (kids don't want to have a formal boyfriend i think this would scare him off lol) get to meet his parents so what they think about there son having a girlfriend. If you decide that its okay for her to date this guy this talk to the parents have rules like " your daughter is not allowed to go over his house unless one of them is there" 2. let them see each other maybe 2 a week for an hour 3. if her grades go down she will have to end her little boyfriend thing. 3. and THE MOST IMPORTANT talk to her about SEX and how at her age that shouldn't cross her mind tell her she needs to have respect for herself and be aware of all the things that could happen and how many doors having an active sex life leads too.. i understand its your daughter and she is only 12 but if shes thinking about dating at such a young age you should be able to start talking to her about this things.... being strict sometimes doesn't work kids get rebellious set rules and maintain firm your consequences if she brakes them. Tell her that you are being reasonable with her in exchange of trust.

Kicking her a$$ will not help trust me i was in her situation and felt that my parents just didn't let me do anything (this happened to me at age15) i think that if my parents would of let me have a a boyfriend at 15 i would probably get over the guy quick since my parents approved it) i was sent to mexico when i had a boyfriend for a couple of months. which i always thought my parents over reacted because i was always very responsible . all i wanted was TRUST and you should give that to your child before making any other decisions