I know my dad is having an affair, should I tell him I know?

[Isabella]

Wow, I am sorry that you are stuck in an uncomfortable situation. First of all I think you should talk to your dad. Ask him why he is having an affair; obviously there must be something wrong in your parent’s relationship. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about the situation. After, talking to your dad and you see that the relationship can be fixed then don’t tell your mom, is better for your dad to tell your mom. It’s their relationship. Of course you can help by giving your dad an advice on talking marriage counseling with your mom. Of course, if you see that he doesn’t have any intentions on fixing his marriage the correct thing to do is tell your mom because it’s not fair for her to be cheated on. She too has the right to make a new life with someone else.