Talking to moms who gave up their kids?

[Chelsey]

I cant speak for anyone else out there but i can tell you my story. First off adoption is an amazing thing. I already had one child one i became pregnant again and i decided adoption was the right choice for that child. It is one of the hardest things i have ever done and i still atruggle with the fact that i dont have my second child. But i have no regrets. My second daughter is with an amazing family and has three brothers and two amazong loving parents. I am fortunate enough to have an open adoption and get to see pictures i can evwn meet her if i so choose. And open adoptions are able to be enforced legally. It is a contract that both parties sign. And will stand in a court of law unless a judge determines that by having contact with the birth family the child will be in danger. Dont get me wrong the decision to place a child for adoption is extremely hard but it is the most selfless act you could do as a mother. To love the child enough to recognize that they woyld do better with another family. I hope that whatever choice yoy make you find peace in it