HELP! Am I Just Really Shallow Or?

[John Jacob Jingle Heimershmit HisNameIs MyName Too]

Ok so I've been asking questions for the past few days about me and my friend's breakup I guess you could say? Well long story short she made a negative comment about me and I called her out for it and now she can't stand me. Well after days of apologizing she sent me a DM on Twitter saying how I'm pathetic and all I do is annoy her, well that upset me and made me think of her completely differently. Am I shallow to bring up people making fun of her cutting issue as a text response to her making fun of my sexuality? This has been disturbing me for a while now. Also am I shallow for kind of not wanting to befriend her again since she's too much too handle with all her personal issues. Please don't be too negative. Thank you for the answers =)