How to write a letter to my father?

[Katlady]

That is an upsetting situation. Sit in your room without distractions and just start writing down your thoughts and feelings. Then, take a break. Go back and read what you wrote. Make whatever changes you need to and write your letter. Sometimes you need to just get your thoughts out first. You want to make sure the final letter is clear and a little less angry so it will be read and taken the way you want it to. You also need to realize the problem is between your parents. You should keep a relationship with both of them separate from each other. Their split is not your fault and you need to keep communication open with them. If you need to, talk to someone outside the situation about your feelings. It helps to have a friend or mentor to support you during these rough times.