How do you just stop loving someone you originally wanted to marry?

[Rose]

Well, let me tell you it does not matter who you find you will always have those little annoyances. What matters is are they annoying enough that you cannot live with them? Marriage is work-do not be disallusioned by tv. Constantly having butterflies and roses is a joke and unrealistic. If you are looking for that do not get married. It will not work, you have to be committed to the understanding that there will be bumps. Don't get me wrong when I say bumps I mean small things, there are certainly things that are unacceptable and I think most people agree to what those things are. Look within yourself and ask are these small things really the problem or are you just realizing this is not going to work. Do not marry if you cannot truly say you want to spend forever together and don't want to be without the person. Best of luck.