How do you just stop loving someone you originally wanted to marry?

[Lila]

Marriage is a commitment you make to someone that you (hopefully) love enough to spend the rest of your life with.

How long you know a person can have a lot to do with a decision to make that commitment.

Often, people in the first throws of a relationship can confuse infatuation with feelings of love. Once the initial excitement wears off, then compatibility issues arise.

People start to learn about each other in more in depth ways - religion, philosophy, politics, ..... the list can be endless.

With luck, people can discover that a 'true love' really isn't before they say "I do".

But remember, even the most compatible people have arguments, but these shouldn't 'pull them apart' if they are truly committed to each other.