How can i stop being the crazy ex gf?

[Masterslave162]

If you're not getting or keeping dates then being so "stuck on him" may be a larger issue in the matter then having a kid is. If you're not invested enough in wanting to focus on and know another individual and clearly still obsessing over this other guy, they aren't going to stick around.

It's been said that it can take as long to get "over" someone as the amount of time you had the relationship. But obsessing over him will not help anything and reading articles can only offer pointers, not cures.

Focus on your child and your own little family and making a happy life for yourselves, then maybe a better guy will turn up when you aren't even looking for him, someone who may went to be part of that happy life he sees.

Sometimes we have to learn to be happy on our own before we're capable of having someone else be a part of it.