I may be sexually frustrated?

[burtlikko]

You're seventeen. A lot of the mood swings and inappropriate aggression comes from an abundance of testosterone in your system. Having sex or not won't affect it much -- but working out a lot will increase it. Not always a bad thing; working out and getting that rush of testosterone will help you set aside some of those lazier impulses. Nothing wrong with playing video games, but there ought to be other things too.

Also, you're seventeen. Seventeen year old guys are horny as all get out, pretty much all the time. That's inherently frustrating. You say you're bored with self-pleasure -- have you tried using porn to enhance the experience? Technically you should be 18 before using porn, but let's get real here. If whacking it isn't really your thing, then maybe once a week ought to be enough to keep your sexual impulses reasonably placated until you can hook up with a girl.

And finally, you're seventeen. You're right on the verge of adulthood but not quite there yet; you're articulate and smart based on your question and your ability to engage in self-reflection, so you're probably looking forward to college and moving on past high school but not quite there yet. Here's the thing about late adolescence -- it soon turns in to young adulthood. Young adulthood ROCKS. You'll be at college, having a great time, filling your brain with all kinds of cool knowledge, tons of social opportunities, and at the peak of your physical life, with just the unpleasant extremes knocked off the cycles you're describing now, as you attain real control and comfort with your body and your personality and your place in the world. It's natural that you're impatient to start that.

You'll get there, dude. And it's gonna be every bit as good as I promise. In the meantime, what you're going through is what we all went through. Enjoy the good parts, endure the bad parts, learn from it. Good luck, man.