Bullying. . . . . . . . . . . .?

[sunmecca]

success is the best revenge. In this case you are dealing with a person who feeds and thirsts for drama. Her watching you be upset (silent, returned death stares) it is exactly what she wants. She lives and breathes this shit.. think of it this way.. if it were not you, she'd find someone else to torture.

the only way to handle terrible people.. be extra nice to them.. tell them I know you didn't mean to do what you did or say what you said so don't worry I forgive you. Act casually and accept that no matter what.. gossip cannot be avoided. Act like you just don't give a shit.. smile laugh and be happy.. if she asks whats so funny? just say i'm a naturally happy person.. I laugh when I feel like it. Be in control.. tell someone a joke.. ignore her as much as you can walk around with your friends offer them fun treats like cookies.. talk about the weather.. these sorts of acts of goodness really confuses terrible people (bullies) you don't have to explain yourself.. just be you and be happy.. eventually they will disappear because their bullying tactics do not work..

Oh and something that might feel really great and liberating.. get off facebook and twitter it's the best way to avoid bullies.