I feel so lonely, please give me advice?

[ella]

Hi sweetheart,
I understand that your situation must be quite difficult, especially if you feel like without these people you will have no friends. But what you have to remember is that if they act how they do towards you, then they're not very good friends. I know that you don't want to leave them because you'll feel lonely, but sometimes that is the best thing to do. When you're gone, I'm sure they'll realise how much they miss you and hopefully they'll start acting more like friends towards you. Maybe while you leave them for a while, you could try and make some new friends. Making friends is never an easy option, which is why I always hate giving it as advice, but I think in your case it is all you can do. You don't even have to be that close to them, just ask if you can sit with them at lunch, join in with their conversations etc. Or, if that doesn't work, maybe join a sports club or something, just so that you can meet new people and hopefully make some new friends who you can text.

Because you consider yourself lonely, I think you are just becoming paranoid that these tweets are meant for you - and then, because you think they don't like you much, you start to misinterpret their text replies as being cold. I don't think you should let it get to you that much. The only reason they get annoyed when you ask about their twitter posts is probably because a) not many people like talking about what they post online because it can sometimes be awkward, or b) they feel offended that you think they were being mean towards you. I'm sure they're not purposely being mean to you. If things don't improve, try talking to one of them. Just ask if you can talk to them about something privately and then explain to them how you feel, and how you feel like their tweets are about you etc.

Hopefully I managed to help you a bit. If you need any more advice, I have an advice tumblr here: http://smile-and-take-my-hand.tumblr.com/
or if you have a facebook account, you can join my page and talk to me on there - http://www.facebook.com/pages/Always-Her...835?ref=hl .

Ella x